Monday, September 30, 2019

Carousell - The joy of selling - Item 3

We got a car seat when one of our friends moved to the US. They said its supposed to have another part which was missing or misplaced, my memory fails which one. Given it was useless to be used for the purpose for which it was made and a little useful to feed the baby and make him go to sleep. We used it for a year and then kept it away safe for another 3 years. 

The day came when I was cleaning the store room. Cleaning days are the days I realize maybe I have things that can make its way to a new home. So I put it up in Carousell for 20 or 30 dollar. In a few hours guilt kicked in...how can I sell something that is not complete for that much money plus we got it for free. My brain split into two personalities and began the courtroom debate. The good half won this time and I decided that in 2 days I will take it down. And if in case someone comes within these two days, they can have it for free.

Within a few hours a buyer came. I was shocked, this is one of the times when coincidence and the forces of universe compete in unison to break you down. I messaged them saying the set was incomplete and they can have it for free. Again they were ok with the deal ... 

They came down my block to pick it up and this is where it gets real interesting. She looked like a model, her husband looked rich and they were driving a very big car. My mind is wandering at high speed. "Is this car seat an artifact or relic" "Are they collectors or do they want to reverse engineer and find out how to make one" "Maybe they are doing a drama or production and need something as a prop" I wanted to dissolve into the universe with the car seat, but the lady was super nice and kind. She forced a 10 dollar saying, I cannot accept things for free, kindly take this.

They left me with the story and drove into darkness.

Clarity in thoughts - 1

What is the worst - trying to do a thing or overcoming your mental barrier ? I would say its the later.
It took me time, lot of effort and convincing till I could finally reach that point where I decided that maybe, I do measure up and can do it.

Someone has rightly coined, "dreams of an Indian women comes with an expiry date" When guys need to do something, all they have to do is get up and do it. Is it the same for a women? I don't think so...she thinks about children, their classes, household chores and multiple things just spring up from every possible direction.

Society blames her for everything should anything go wrong and disrupts the flow. So what is the resolution? I will tell you, don't give a cent or dime about what anybody thinks. Rise up and do the things you like to do. Sometimes you fail and sometimes you win. Life at any given point is a sum of all the decisions you took, but the truth is, life is a journey and not a balance sheet. The faster you realize it, the better your happiness index will be.

Be an icon to your daughter and be graciously iron willed. Let her grow up believing, "I too can dream"